Dead beat SHAWN BARNES

Posted on : 25-09-2010 | By : mzbrown | In : Deadbeat Dads, New York

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OK lets see if i can make this short.. my daughter is 16 we had her young me 14 him about 18. he has been in and out of jail since she was 5.. his last jail visit lasted him 8 yrs in jail when she was about 9. he has been out of jail for the past 2yrs..

now since day 1 he has not done anything for her at all except make broken promises, he has never spent 1 day alone with her ( movies dinner walks nothing) he barely calls to see how her day has been ( he says he be to busy) for a 5min call?.

for xmas 09 she called him 2 days before he couldnt speak to her cuz he was wrapping up her presents ( thats wat he said) the day of xmas he called and said he was gonna bring her gifts later that day.. we never saw him and he didnt call back till 4 days lata, he came over with one of those video games that has 1000 games on them ( she dont play games) and it was pre use it was his old game… he never brought her anything…

i lost my job and he knows this i have 2 girls ( only 1 by him) and he called and said he was gonna help with the school.. never did he call back…

my daughter is the oldest of his 2-3 other kids… he takes a lil better care of his other young daughter he says only cuz her clothes are cheaper…

my daughter was acting out and got arrested he never ever once showed up to court..but HE WANTS TO CALL AND MAKE DEMANDS….AND TRY TO SCOLD HER…

THESE BOYS OUT HERE NEED TO REALIZE ONCE U HAVE KIDS ITS SO NOT ABOUT U ANYMORE… ESPECIALLY WHEN U HAVE A DAUGHTER AND THE FATHER IS NOT THERE SHE WILL GO LOOKING FOR THAT MISSING PART OUTSIDE TO THESE STUPID BOYS WHO WILL JUST WANNA BEAT…

A MOTHERS JOB IS NEVER EVER DONE ( A GOOD MOTHER THAT IS) SHE WILL GO WAY BEYOND TO NOT SEE HER KIDS HURT… AND THATS WAT U LIL BOYS ARE DOING, U THINK ONCE U CANT DEAL WITH THE MOTHER ANYMORE U DONT DEAL WITH THE KIDS… ITS SO SAD

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damn that sucks. my father died when i was 2 so i never had a father figure in my life. and even though this deadbeat isnt around you should try your best to raise your daughter the right way. she shouldnt be getting locked up. smh

I do more then my best to raise my girls by myself…but its hard when they still love their father and he is not around……he wants to call and drop by every now and again and not be a consist part of her life…..so her gettin locked up was part of her takin her anger out the wrong way…

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