Dustin Enfinger (San Antonio, Houston, and Kerrville, Texas)

Posted on : 08-09-2011 | By : christofer2 | In : Deadbeat Dads, Texas

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He dated and lived with my daughter for over 3 years and in June 2011, he abandoned my daughter and his infant daughter, Reagan. He assumed he was married through common law and even wore a wedding band, but they were never married. His daughter was born and the only thing that he had bought her in the time I’ve known him was an infant bathtub. My wife and I have put food on their table, paid bills, housed them when they couldn’t afford a place to stay, and put every bit of clothing on the daughters back and shoes on her feet; bought diapers, medicines, and toys. We comforted her when she needed comforting. We were the ones that took care of her while her deadbeat dad left for Houston and moved in with his mother that was living with her boyfriend. He is a job hopper and held four jobs in two years while in Virginia; probably got fired since he doesn’t like authority. He has had two jobs since he moved to Texas. He has no respect for authority, disregards meaningful advice, and has an anger management problem. He is a dreamer and lives in an X-box world of fantasy. My daughter, her mother, and I have not seen one dime sent to his daughter for any support, of any kind. He is the biggest loser I have ever met and I wish him all of the hardship that the world can mustered up for the rest of his wasted life.

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Appending my first comment: This loser has now moved back in with my daughter in Culpeper, Virginia. He is not to ever step back onto my property which was conveyed to my daughter. This struck close to home for her since this was her first Thanksgiving and Christmas to not be at our home. We provide a very nice Christmas for the children. I can’t say that he provides anything for his. Since his child was born, he has only bought an infant bath. We have provided everything else from baby wipes to bottles, diapers to clothing and jackets and shoes. The problems they have together are mainly because of him. It appears that he is avoiding responsibility for everything from taxes to his bills. Recently I received an overdue Orange County property tax bill that belongs to him. I’m sure he will say that he no longer owns the truck and that he isn’t going to pay it. I still receive his bills at my home, most are shredded. The major problem between them is money. She works more hours than he does and brings in more money too. He is still a part time worker and probably will never have a 40 hour workweek. I’m sure he has never considered a second job to get them paid up. He is destined to be the trash I thought he was. Unfortunately, he is the reason that my daughter is where she is today — in low income housing. I would venture to bet that together they make more than what the apartment complex allows and he’s probably put it in her head that they aren’t paying more. Obviously the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree either. We received a call the other day from a collector that wanted to know if we knew Maesue (Mae Sue) Enfinger Griffin. Of course, we said NO! We have never met the woman. The collector said that she had used my name as a reference, with my address and phone number. I have never met this woman, dislike this woman too, don’t know what she looks like, never authorized her to use me as a reference, it’s obvious that she is avoiding responsibility too, and I would like for the both of them to completely disappear. It’s no wonder this idiot does what he does. His mother does it too. I presume that she trained him how to take advantage of people, places, and things.

And here we go again. So, this deadbeat dad went back to Texas again and then hooked up with a Muslim girlfriend. Hopefully any girl that befriends him and expects anything of worth to come to them from him will read this. Evidently, this site works because either the girlfriend or one of her friends looked him up on the net and found it. Hopefully, I have helped some parent save their daughter from the agony of being with him.
A funny thing happened afterwards. My daughter got a call from him and he told her that if I didn’t removed this from the site that he would hire an attorney and sue me for slander. This little “boy” doesn’t have a dime to pay for anything, so I know that he’s blowing smoke as he always does (he always talks smack). He is mad that this is being read by others and he can’t do a thing about it.
It’s obvious he doesn’t know what slander is. So, for his benefit, I have included this for him to chew on: slander n. oral defamation, in which someone tells one or more persons an untruth about another which untruth will harm the reputation of the person defamed. Slander is a civil wrong (tort) and can be the basis for a lawsuit. Damages (payoff for worth) for slander may be limited to actual (special) damages unless there is malicious intent since such damages are usually difficult to specify and harder to prove. Some statements such as an untrue accusation of having committed a crime, having a loathsome disease, or being unable to perform one’s occupation are treated as slander per se since the harm and malice are obvious, and therefore usually result in general and even punitive damage recovery by the person harmed. Words spoken over the air on television or radio are treated as libel (written defamation) and not slander on the theory that broadcasting reaches a large audience as much if not more than printed publications. The end state is that you cannot sue for slander if it is true, and everything I have stated is true.
However, he has done one thing to help save himself and that is he has started to send money to my daughter, not much, but some. I’m not sure that it is his money or his grandmother’s. He probably still doesn’t even have a job (one of his iterative life processes).
Now I hear that he is returning to Culpeper Virginia for a short while in July 2012 to “visit” the daughter he abandoned. It is my personal opinion that this is a bad move because he WILL disappear again and this will have an emotional effect on the daughter. He is supposed to stay with my daughter for the two weeks he is here. This is also bad move. This means that the money we just spent to buy groceries for her will be eaten by him. He also knows that we just bought a car that we are letting our daughter drive. We are paying the insurance on the vehicle. I told my daughter that I DO NOT want him to sit in the right or left seat of the car and I didn’t want him in the trunk or in the engine compartment. This pretty much means that he is not allowed in the car at all. The car is NOT for him to ride in or drive. If I catch him driving the car, I will report it stolen and have him arrested. I addressed this to my daughter and she said that he was going to rent a car at the Richmond airport and drive to Culpeper. Now why don’t I believe this? Because he doesn’t have any money? YES. I wonder where he got the money to fly to Virginia.
He is such a user, and like I said before to my daughter — he will use you up just like he does with everyone else.
If you doubt what I say, please contact me via email: christofer2@verizon.net.

I’m going to make this short and sweet. I’ve known people like you my entire life. An over opinionated male ego driven male. The reason I disalign with the rest of the male populas. Yes me and my mother had a very tough time when I was younger. My dad was an unreliable as he was heroine addict. We’ve had to be resourceful but not at others expense as you would imply sir. When I met my daughters mother (whom Christopher never mentions her really) I was not in the best position and neither one of us should have been dating each other. Regardless we did care about each other and made the choice when our daughters pregnancy came up to move to VA, save moneyyou and go to school based on her parents offering the following: A place to stay in their huge home separate from them so noone stepped on each others toes, no cost of daycare from offering to watch the kids, chance to save money, ability to get out as a couple every now and them. Completely reasonable. However. We were not given room seperate rather all upstairs right next to them. Shortly after being there it was stated that the kids were too much to handle and we needed to get our own place. We would have never moved had we known the mental edge of our support would be so inconsistent. As far as work, I had a job within a few weeks that was more than fulltime. I worked this until a speeding ticketI got prevented me from my driving position. Very soon after I was working for a roofing company until I found work closer to home with Builders. Quickly became in charge of multistate repairs. Working 14-16 hours a day at times. I started to school for accounting at one point with an A average, while my daughters mom never started either of the two programs I stated paying for for her. We separated in July for reasons that are our business and not anyone elses. I planned on getting a place and having Celeste and the children move down to get away from the stress VA was putting on us including her parents. She convinced me to move back, and it was into the same situation but worse. Our relationship ended in March and I returned to TX. I began to work st a hospital to which I am still currently employed and send Child Support AND extra money to help Celeste when she needed it regardless whether I could afford to at the time. I did this with NO court involvement. As far as helping us. You never paid bills, help with food or clothes was not neccasary OR asked for. It was done randomly, was always appreciated, and now you’ll make a big deal about it. I put plenty of food in our home, paid bills, and bought what my little girl needed. I wore a wedding band as a gesture to Celeste that I was faithful to her. In 30+ years YOU have not been faithful to your wife. While staying with you and our children were in your home, incest porn sites would pop up on the computer when Celeste would check her email in the morning. Only 2 people accessed that computer. And damn sure wasnt me or her. And Ive never tried to drink/freeze myself to death to abandon my wife and child and leave them alone in another country. Knowing all of this before handI and having no respect you I could take no advice from you. It would be comparable to taking leadership advice from Hitler. My issue with authority is on the selfish corrupt side of authority which Im pretty sure anyone with intelligence would.

You can lash back if you want, two sides to every story, just because you write well doesnt give you credibility. Your end can actually be accessed and verified through hardrive and records. I will not respond to you and do not harass me at all. And I didn’t even wish anything bad upon you, which you deserve it all, and what goes around comes around.

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