Hi My name is Patrick Dennis Dahl and I dont support my child!

Posted on : 20-08-2011 | By : crappypatrickdahl | In : Deadbeat Dads, Pennsylvania

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My name is Patrick Dennis Dahl and I live in Phila Pa 19111. Back in 1999 my ex-wife gave birth to my beautiful daughter. Through the years I choose to lie, cheat, steal and degrade anyone and everyone that came into my life including my ex-wife. Since she wised up and left me I felt that getting back at her the best way I could was to “NOT pay child support or financially support my daughter at all”. I know that its wrong but in my eyes I think that this is getting back at my ex for not tolerating my Infidelities, the constant hitting on her girl friends, and trying to sleep with them. My ex-wife cares for my daughter, supports her financially, supplies her medical and has her about 80% of the time (if not more when I get a bug up my butt). That’s the way it should be cause heck Im not much of a father I’m alot like my own mother that abandoned me.
My daughter is a bright, beautiful, sweet young lady and I owe all that to my ex-wife for raising her. By me not supporting her I know that at times she had to do without, or didn’t get what she needed or couldnt go on trips or participate in things that mattered the most to her. BUT this will give her some tough skin later in life. She will know better than to pick a loser such as myself. She will know when to run away when a man lies on a regular basis. This is a lifelong lesson for her and I’m glad that I was the one to bring it forward for her. I know she may hate me later on in life but who cares, hell I didn’t care enough when she needed me growing up why should I care later? Paying support is useless and I really dont see the need in it when her mother can support her.
Showing my daughter that I dont want to support her, raise her, love her or spend time with her like daddies and daughter should will just give her a lesson in life that Daddies aren’t always good daddies sometimes they just say they are good daddies to hear themselves talk! It makes us deadbeats feel better when we hear it.
Well when my daughter gets older and she goes to college, meets a wonderful man, gets married, buys a huge house and raises an awesome family, I know who will be in all the photo’s leading up to this…. MY EX WIFE cause she’s the one who stuck by her side no matter what and did what she had to make ends meet without government assistantace… she will deserve all the much needed credit :)

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Nine Months later and Patrick is still NOT paying child support. (Feb 2011 To Sept 2011) and he is behind $3000.00 in back child support that the courts decided to wip clean to give this dead beat a clean start. Its sad when you have to force the hand of a person to do the right thing. When your not supplying basic needs, paying child support, clothing , shoes, school supplies, …ect then you get what you deserve when your pay is garnished. DONT BRING KIDS INTO THIS WORLD THAT YOUR NOT GOING TO SUPPORT.

Just think all this could just go away if the right thing was done.(pay your dag gone child support) Bringing children into this world that you don’t plan on supporting or having the government support them creates this disaster (so does WIC-WELFARE-SECTION 8) . All deadbeats can learn from ones mistake and to the ladies that pursue the issue in an effort to have your child/children supported TWO THUMBS up. It does not matter if you work at Wal-Mart as a greeter or a Lawyer what matters is that the child at hand is being cared for by both parties. This serves so many purposes especially showing the child the right, moral, ethical thing to do. We don’t want our children to grow up to be a deadbeat. When a deadbeat does not help in providing the basic needs of a child then they forfeit any right to complain when the other party parades them in court time after time. As stated above everything mentions in this forum is mere facts I dare you to prove me wrong!!!!!

I know him and he always has his daughter every time I see him. And I know he wouldn’t put this up here his self. So must be his CRAZY ex wife talking to herself on here.

This is the funniest, most uneducated, retarded comment I’ve seen yet. He never has his daughter. His visitation is for Tues and Thursday and he NEVER EVER picks her up on Thursdays, on most Tuesdays his tires on the Kling mobile is flat. And weekends let’s count the seconds that he spends with her (that is if he picks her up). There is more to being a parent/dad then saying “ I love you” or “I’ma gonna “. He has more excuses as to why he can’t do for her, get her the items she needs or support her decisions she makes for herself. Lets mention the fact of no child support in 2 years! Yeah that wonderful dead beat doesn’t support or take care of her either. This comment is more than obvious as to who posted it but either way we all must consider the source and the fact that he is a DEAD BEAT. Anyone stupid enough to tolerate, deal with or have children with him is as dumb and the person who wrote this. The only person/s his daughter is with 24/7 is her mother, her friends and the people who deeply care about her and her father is not one of them!
Being a mother or father is more than just saying she is my daughter. It means being there for them when they need an ear to bend, supplying their basic needs and some of their wants, teaching them right from wrong, educating them, allowing them to make mistakes and being there to help them understand the lessons to be learned, spending quality time with them, supporting their decisions in life when it comes to friends, sports, boys, and LIFE. I can solely vouch myself that her mother, friends and extended family in her life love, support and cherish her dearly. Words are just that WORDS its actions that show how much or how little you care. I suggest YOU grab a parenting life lesson book and read it cause you are way off! But that is to be expected of a low-life such as yourself! Enough said……

I’m sure his father is rolling around in his grave to see the kind of Man and father he turned out to be!!! Way to honor him… hopefully others won’t turn out like him either! We don’t need anymore dead beats hitting the streets of Philly.

AMAZING is all I can say. How do you not take care of your child and try to act as if you do? You have no bragging rights here. I have known your child for more than 10 years and all I can say is your a disgrace to man kind. Your child is wonderful, loving, caring, sweet and most importantly a CHILD. Don’t you get it? Let me break it down for you:
DO you pay child support? NOPE
When she needs basic items like soap, clothes, sneakers, school supplies do you fill in the gaps and help to get these for her? NOPE AGAIN! (let me add that in times I HAVE made sure she had these items myself) no thanks to you!!!
When she wants to play a sport, try out for a sport or take up a new hobby are you there supporting or cheering her on? NOPE!!!!
When your child is not feeling well do you at least pull your weight and make sure she has medical, or even seek medical attention for her? NOPE NOPE and NOPE again.
Do you ever just sit down and talk to her, about her day, her life, her friends, ????? HELL NO
DO you know anything about her? NOPE … I can tell you this I’m an outsider and could answer every damn last one of these questions with a positive response. That’s more than that what you or the others that post on here can do. The main focus here is being lost so let me educate you on this… a pre-teen is growing up here knowing that what little her father is in her life is barely worth the heartache, pain and trouble. Get your heads out of your Butts and love, support and care for her. If not you will have no one but yourselves to blame when she grows up to be a charming lovely lady and has nothing to you with you her dead beat sperm donor! It may take only one woman to give birth to a child but it takes an army to raise her! You can truly learn from that statement!
Kudos to her mother for doing her best with what she is given. In the long run honey it will pay off. Keep doing what you do best.

OH I sooo have to get in on this one. Consider the source is right. Anyone happy in life knowing they brought a child into this world and then turn around and not support any function in their life is a LOW LIFE SCUM. I am more than familiar with this situation and all parties involved. I would be more than happy to go face to face with the scum bag dad (most referred to as sperm donor) but I was asked not to. This child is with her mom more than any other child I know. I don’t need to go on here and brag that I know her mother or the fact that she’s a damn good parent. She knows it and the acquaintances that she deals with know it too. She is rising her daughter (need I remind everyone without the support of the father) on her own to be a strong young lady. She’s there for EVERYTHING!!!! She misses nothing with that child. Considering the source here that others involved don’t show much of a good example either. Analyze your life before you come on here talking about my friend. This woman puts the M in MOTHER. She has surrounded herself with a great support team, family and good examples. You all could learn from her strategies. I guess I could end this with, “This is what is to be expected when you know you’re wrong, you think you have a voice here but no one is listening” . If this is what gets you off or gets you by each day making up a fantasy world then have at it. good luck cause we all know you need it!

FUNNY HOW ALL YOU COWARDS CAN GO ON HERE AND TALK SHIT ABOUT THIS GUY! BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT ALL OF YOU HAVE NEVER ONCE STEPPED TOE TO TOE WITH THIS GUY. I ALSO KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE WOULD NEVER BACK DOWN. SO KEEP TALKING SHIT. YOU ARE A BUNCH OF LOW LIFE SCUMS BAGS WORTHLESS AS DOG SHIT HA HA HA HA

Ouch that really hurts calling us stand up parents COWARDS. What’s the matter did we hit the nail on the head here when we call you a dead beat? The fact remains “You’re a dead beat FATHER” and I use that word Father sparingly. You do nothing to support her well being, livelihood, interest, or the basic necessities in life. Any of us that would step to you would be taking a MAJOR step DOWN. You’re a low-life dead beat. Your about 300lbs if not better. And god would only know what you have contracted with what you choose to be with and around. So give me or any of us one good reason to step to you? We all have beautiful, lovely, wonderful families. Not to mention your daughter that is our extended family. Why would we want to lose that to rearrange your face? But let’s talk about the fact here that you have the time to respond to this but you don’t have the time support your daughter? What about her? Again the response above made me think, “Your FATHER would be turning is his Grave to see the piece of Sh@$ you turned out to be”!!!!! No one could ever cover the fact that you’re a BUM! Your daughter needed and needs you and your nowhere to be found let alone the fact that you do nothing to financially, physically, or mentally support her. What about that TOUGH GUY? How do you feel about that? IT makes you feel like a big man knowing she could never come to you for anything she needs; instead she comes to outsiders such as myself and my wife and the other wonderful people on here talking about YOU! Thank the heavens for the fact that she has many to lean on cause we all know the only thing leaning on you is about 300lb of lard!
I’m glad to hear that your attitude towards life and trying to be a tough guy still hasn’t changed. With all the hope in the world “We all hope you run your mouth to the wrong person and get a licking of your life”! When are you going to wake up and realize that stepping to a 36yr old 300lb man would prove nothing to me or any of us? How about you turn that aggression towards doing what’s right for your daughter? Your what’s wrong with this world today, they should clip, snip and burn your reproductive organs cause you add nothing positive to society.
Take these words and use them positivly, you need a lot of help if you can turn this around to be about you and to think someone would even want to step down (way down) to your level!!! I lmao at you

Yikes! Almost forgot to add, Yup were all soooooooo sooooo sooooo afraid of YOU! Watch out her he comes.

YOU ALL CRACK ME UP YOU ARE TAKING ONSIDE OF THE STORY HERE WHEN THE ISSUE IS A LOT DEEPER THEN YOU CAN IMAGINE. SO LETS BEGIN YOU CALL THIS GUY A DEAD BEAT FATHER OK THIS IDEA IS FEED TO YOU BY A MOTHER WHO FROM HER OWN DAUGHTERS MOUTH HAS HAD MORE MEN IN THE PAST FEW YEARS THE SCOTT HAS SHEETS ON A ROLL OF TOILET PAPER NOT TO MENTION 6 MONTHS AFTER THEIR DAUGHTER WAS BORN THIS WONDERFUL MOTHER WAS SLEEPING WITH MEN AT THE REALLS SPORTS BAR ON FRANKFORD AVE AND THE BOYFRIEND WHOM SHE LIVES WITH LOVES TO PARADE AROUND IN HIS UNDERWARE IN FRONT OF HER 12 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER OK NOW YES LETS CONSIDER THE SOURCE HER MOTHER HAS STOLE FROM EVERY SINGLE JOB SHE HAS HAD IN THE PAST 15 OR MORE YEARS NOT TO MENTION EVERY TIME SHE GOT MARRIED SHE ALWAYS HAD OTHER MEN ON THE SIDE OH AND THE FACT THAT HER CURRENT HUSBAND LIVES IN THE BACK ROOM OF THEIR TRAILER WHILE THE CURRENT BOYFRIEND LIVES ON THE LIVING ROOM SOFA HMMM OH AND THE FATHER IS A CONVICTED FELON WHO USES A DISABLED MAN FOR HIS MONEY HMMM OH AND THE WONDERFUL OLDER BROTHER WHO COULD NOT SPELL IS OWN NAME CHANGED IT TO BREEZE AND HAS NOT SEEN IS FIRST BORN SON SINCE HE WAS 6 MONTHS OLD AND THAT HAS BEEN ALMOST 16 YEARS AND THE OTHER BROTHER TRADES SEXUAL FAVORS FOR TATTOOS AND THE YOUNGEST BROTHER CAN GET OUT FROM HIS MOTHER ASS AND SELLS STOLEN MERCHANDISE OH AND NOW THE WONDERFUL MOTHER WHO STOLE THIS GUYS CAR AND CAUSE 11K IN DAMAGES AND LIES TO THE IRS ABOUT SELLING CHILDREN’S CLOTHING AT FLEA MARKETS AND WHEN SHE WAS GIVING THE HOME THEY BOUGHT TOGETHER SO THE DAUGHTER CAN HAVE A NICE LIFE SHE LET IT GO TO FORECLOSURE AND COMMITTED INSURANCE FRAUD JUST TO GET THIS GUYS NAME OFF OF A TITLE OF A CAR THEY OWNED JOINTLY SO YOU UNEDUCATED “PEOPLE” CAN GO ON AND ON BASHING THIS GUY BUT I KNOW HE HAS MORE THEN MOVED ON WITH HIS LIFE AND DOES WHAT HE CAN TO ADHERE TO THE COURTS IN SUPPORTING HIS DAUGHTER HE SPENDS EVERY TIME HE CAN WITH HER WITH THE EXCEPTIONS WHEN HE IS LATE AND THE MOTHER REFUSES TO ALLOW HIS DAUGHTER TO GO WITH HIM ALL OF WHICH IS DOCUMENTED WITH THE LOCAL POLICE DEPARTMENT SO EVERYONE GO GET A LIFE AND LEAVE THIS GUY ALONE

I hear more and more excuses, your avoiding the subject here. I guess when people talk about you and reference “dumb or stupid ” they hit the nail on the head. You are a sorry excuse for a man. Blah blah blah blah blah…You can talk all the CRAP you want about your ex wife but the matter at hand here is ” YOU DONT SUPPORT YOUR CHILD”.. DO YOU PAY CHILD SUPPORT????/ let me answer for you NO… do you buy or supply clothes for her when in need…NOPE… do you get her anything that she may need for school…nope… do you supply her lunches…nope… What kind of a father do you think you are? You lie and lie and lie. This is and was the main reason your ex- divorced your sorry a@@. We all could not wait for that day  Happiest day or all our lives  You can talk crap and that’s what it is about your ex-wife but she’s a hell of mother and a better stand up person than you are or ever will be. You surely think you know a lot about your ex-wives family but you claim you moved on??? Huhh that doesn’t sound true.. I’ve been at her house more times when you didn’t arrive or when you arrived late or lied to your daughter about why you couldn’t come on your visitation day. I’ve seen your daughter cry and get upset. SO you can’t tell me for one minute that you come or visit when you’re supposed to. Who do you think you’re fooling? (if you have to tell yourself these lies to be able to rest your head at night then have at it) You see there is always a day when your lies come back to you and bite you on the A@@ and your day came over 4 years ago when your ex announced she was leaving you, throwing you out and divorcing you . NOW GET OVER IT… Get over her family.. move on and support your daughter… Its no longer about you and her. She moved on when bigger and better. Hopefully you kindof did the same..lmao ..Now we could just sit here and bash your family (what would that prove)like you did your ex’s cause we all know you turned out just like your mommy but we won’t go there. We would not want to stoop to your level (beyond low).As far as anyone living with one another its beats living off someone else’s welfare check. Know what that’s like huhh. How’s it feel to eat food that’s bought with food stamps and meant for a child! Talk about stealing food from children! I about fell out of my chair when I read the transcript from your court case (oh and if your wondering I was able to read it cause I ordered a copy for myself working with the courts gets you that privilege) and saw that your tried to work around the fact that you live with someone that receives government assistance for her child and your there eating the food, living high on the hog with money meant for children. WOW that just takes the cake. I can go on and on with you over this but nothing will ever hide the fact that you are a dead beat dad. You don’t support her, your not there for her, and you keep making excuses. In the bashing above I heard nothing about how you supplied anything that your child needed? When was the last time you got anything for your daughter ? Were not talking about the jump rope or hula hop(from the $ store) that you call Easter presents (I thought your daughter was turning 13 she still plays with that stuff?) nope apparently not. Right… It hurts to hear the truth huhhhh.(you don’t even know your own daughter). You can make up stories all you want but your ex, but her family and her friends all know different.( and would never ever think anything different of her especially coming from your nasty mouth) You don’t need bash her she takes care of you daughter which is WAY more than what you have ever done. All your words are hatred because one person chose not to live like you, cause she chose not to endure your lies, your infidelity, your constant loss of jobs, the petty thievery, and the all around bullsh@# you stand for. Take a hard look at yourself, there’s a lot of remolding you need to do. You should want to do it for your child before it’s to late. I will give you a little hint, I was there for your daughters 8th birthday party when you asked my wife to screw you! Remember that???? Yeah I couldn’t believe that someone could be so low as to hit on a married woman on their own childs 8th birthday. How quickly you have forgotten YOUR past!..karma bites and bites hard huhh

ANd we both know you didnt give the house to your ex-wife thats why it went into forclosure. No one in their right mind would ever keep a house (continue to pay on it) and then have to hand over half of it to someone that didnt help pay… YOU lied again… I understand you do this for a living (lie) but come on we all know different. We all seen the paperwork and know you DID NOT give that house to anyone. Your a piece of work!

WOW is all I can say. The lies just pore in by the dozen. I agree if you have to tell yourself all these lies in order to get yourself through life than have at it. Deat-Beat-Low-Life -Loser.. there are no other words to explain him!

Ladies and gents dont waste another moment on a little boy that steals his daughters birthday and christmas money that others gifted to her…this is the kind of douch bag were talking about…just let him live in his f-D UP world..he will never amount to anything sizable..literlly

One last food for thought, What does anyone’s Mother, Bother/s, Father, Cousin, Uncle, Aunt or friend got to do with YOU NOT supporting your daughter? They didn’t make her your sorry a@@ did. You got more excuses. You blamed everyone else as to why you don’t support your child. Nice one guess you thought we were all too stupid to see through your insane rant.
Poopie- Your right he is insane, stupid as a rock and deserves no more attention BUT I still would like to see updates to his disappearing ways of supporting his child… keep up the good work mom your daughter is a blessing and we all know you don’t need his impute in life your doing just fine 

I’m signing out for the moment but would still love to mop the floor with this lil-boys face ~~~

YOU LOSERS CRACK ME UP FIRST OF ALL I WILL SAY THIS ONCE AGAIN I KNOW FOR A FACT IF ANY OF YOU WANNA BE TUFF GUYS WANT TO STEP TO THIS GUY I DARE YOU I KNOW FOR A FACT YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY WITH THE OUT COME ALSO THE COWARD WHO SAYS HE TRIED TO SLEEP WITH YOUR WIFE AS I RECALL IT BECAUSE I WAS AT THE PARTY YOUR UGLY RED HEADED WIFE WAS TELL ALL OF THE MEN AT THE PARTY ABOUT HOW MUCH OF A SWINGER SHE WAS BETWEEN HER AND THE OTHER UGLY PIECE OF SHIT THERE HITTING ON ALL OF THE MEN THERE IT WAS DISGUSTING AND ANY ONE WHO KNOW THIS GUY KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE THINKS ALL RED HEADS ARE AS UGLY AS A DOG ASS SO KEEP UP WITH THE LIES AND IF ANY OF YOU WANT TO STEP TO HIM YOU BETTER BRING AN ARMY

Awww tough guy we hit a nerve???? You were always a loser… Your nothing and would trip over your own belly trying to come at me or anyone in here. You hit on plenty the evening if your daughters birthday thank the heavens your ex got wind of it and dropped your ugly, spaced tooth,fat, low life a@@. You didnt deserve her… Maybe you should try the red side of things cause that beast your with gives new meaning to manly!!! I guess you dont believe in upgrading any huhh…lol…than again what would want you but trash

Well douch bag you can’t confirm or deny that you are a loser! Bring an army to what? Your support hearings, to the park to point out PHILLY’s biggest dead beat loser? Again this is about your daughter, not one person on here mentioned fighting you. Mainly because we all have way to much respect for your little girl. Thats more than what you will ever have.
No one wants to sleep with you, you were with prostitutes. No one wants to fight you, we all value our lives and being disease free! Your just plain foul!
How quickly you turn this around and make it about you and forget the fact its about your daughter!

YOU FUCKING SCUMS BAGS THIS GUY YOU ALL ARE BASHING IS A REALLY GOOD FATHER AND THE WOMAN THAT HE IS WITH IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN ANY OF YOU SHORT HAIR DIKE LOOKING BITCHES

BAHHHH HA HA HA keep on telling yourself that..Does she have a mustache …check…. Does she have yellow teeth and a gap..check…I hear shes been around too collecting last name for her kids like old ladies collect pennies…check…. Beautiful~bahhhh ha hhhhahhha far from it! More like beastly… you could put Egor-Hunch back – Shrek- all in the same room as your beast and they would win the beauty prize before her…lmfao… Next time you two are in Pathmark do yourselves a favor and BATH! None of us want to smell you fat sweaty dirtbags!

Good Father~ watch that word its researved for real men and your not one of them… (real men suppot thier kids and dont steal food from welfare checks meant for kids)
This proves more and more you live in a fantasy world! I’m done having my fun here. Good luck with Mustache sally…bahhhh ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ..signora~ Dead beat

Pathmark, huhh what??? clueless..fill a brother in

Ha ha ha this is too much. Seriously not worth the time or effort. But am interested in the Pathmark thing…………say what?

ok here goes: I work from time to time (P/T) roaming around at certain Pathmarks doing fillers and I saw the lovely pair strolling down an isle. One had a couple of holes in ITS shirt and the other stains, knew from the site it was them, remembered that fat round face of his, it was like a bad train wreck couldn’t take my eyes off the site, not to mention the smell…….

Wow just an all out bashing on both sides….How will your daughter feel if she reads this?! Just an opinion really so dont go getting mad at me. Bottom line a father is a man who supports his children financially, emotionally, spitritually and in any other way possible. Is this being done??? If not then you need to take the measures necessary to ensure it will be done.

@Crazy don’t know ya dude but you put it point blank!Would like to shake the hand of the man with the best words of wisdom! And to answer your question NOPE… some do NOT know the meaning of support (monetary is not the only form of support)

I hope that in the end everything works out for everyone involved. Your daughter deserves nothing less. Thanks @Liarliar, I just want to see what is right happen.

Hello, My name is Jen and I am a producer for a talk show in NYC. Please give me a call I am doing a show on deadbeat dads and would like to help you out. 347-974-1641.

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