Lazarus James Valentine aka LJ

Posted on : 26-08-2010 | By : bebeg200 | In : Deadbeat Dads, District of Columbia


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Lazarus Valentine seemed so sweet at first. After knowing each other for 5 yrs or so we decided to give the whole BF/GF thing a try. Well after about 3 months, he started telling me how much he wanted a child, how he just wanted somebody to love him no matter what. All this time I had a newborn, and he was a great psuedo dad to him. So after trying for a month, we got pregnant and he was ecstatic. We called his parents and made the announcement, and once again everybody was ecstatic. Well soon after that things went down hill in a hurry. He began stealing my money, he started fighting me, and girls started calling our house. I put him out but we remained cordial because I was expecting his baby. He would travel from DC to Baltimore every other weekend and do all the “baby daddy” stuff, rubbing the belly, going over names, making hot wing runs in the rain. About 2 months before our due date, we were on really good terms, and I didnt hear from him for 3 weeks or so, which at the time was very unusual. So I emailed him and he responded back like he was a new girl, but htis guy is basically illiterate and has a typing style all his own, so I knew it was him. After that he just disappeared. When our son was born, he promised to come see the baby, but didn’t, and when the baby was 3 weeks old, he pulled the “thats not my baby” trick. Turns out he had been with this new girl and she was now pregnant! He came to see the baby when the baby was a few months and declared that the baby looked just like him. THen the next month he would be like no thats not my baby. So tired of all the back and forth I took him to Child support court. He refused to show up for over a year, when he finally did and the paternity test was performed, he then refused to show up for the results. He was arrested for failing to show up. During the course of my investigating I discovered that he named his second son after my son, the one he was pseudo daddy to, so now my son has two brothers with the same name! He sends me pictures of him with all this money and his new baby, we have not gotten anything but 2 ugly outfits. So thats the story of my DBBF ( Dead Beat Baby’s Father). I hope people see this and call him out for the loser he is!

Thanks for giving us a place to vent!

Comments (3)

One word: TRIFFLING!

Wow, now that is a crappy ass dad!

What’s up with all the DVM deadbeat smfh…… Is like all their ass were cut with the same scissors….. I got me one 2 and his new girlfriend claims she’s going to beat me…. I can’t wait to met the bitch!!!!!!!!

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