The Worst of The Worst….Toriano “Tori” Mckinney

Posted on : 16-12-2010 | By : divadj359 | In : Deadbeat Dads, South Carolina

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This is my son’s “Dead Beat Dad” or as I like to now call him, my “sperm donor” cause apparently thats all he was. We were together for 3 years!!!!! So this was no fly by night situation. I got pregnant, and all was good. We had our problems and after 3 years and me 5 months pregnant we called it quits….This “man” was in and out my whole pregnancy. When ever it was convenient to him. He showed up to the hospital after i had given birth, knowing that i was in the hospital the night before scheduled to be induced. Despite that he fought me tooth and nail to give my son not only his last name but his middle name as well. So when it was all said and done, and me having hope and faith that this man would “man up” i gave in and named my son after him. Since we were not together, i decieded to move closer to my parents. Now , this is only a 30 min drive from his house, he told me, that i was running off with his son, and he rather see me live pay check to pay check and struggle alone than move closer to family who can help me and my son out. This coming from a man who has not offered me a dime! After that i asked him for a can of formula to get us through til i got paid at the end of the week. This man didnt even show up, no call no nothing! His excuse…”well you see what had happen was….” When i told him how much my daycare was gonna be, and how much i needed from him….he laughed in my face and told me i would never see that kind of money coming from him! What makes this so bad, is that he has another child, a daughter, he claims to everyone he meets, and tells them how great of a father he is and blah blah blah, truth of the matter is….his daughter lives with his mom and she takes care of her! Hell she takes care of him for that matter! He does not acknowledge he has a son! Not only a son, a name sake! He signed the birth certificate! He wanted to play daddy, he didnt want the responsiblity of daddy because he only cares about himself, and what he can do for him and no one else. He is the worst of the worst and i feel that there is a special place in HELL for people like him.

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i guess i also need to mention that he has not seen his son since he was 5 weeks old, he will be 2 in march! no phone calls to check on him or anything. i guess its outta sight outta mind…so glad he is able to sleep at night….i’m not bitter, i’m hurt for my son who has to have a father like this, and i have to answer the questions one day.

I think that if all you say above is true then you should take him to child support instead of running your mouth on here about how bad a father he is. Explain how it’s been two years and you haven’t mentioned once on filing child support is it that he is not really the father or your just a hater because he stopped taking care of you and a kid that might not be his???? Get your story straight before you try making someone look bad because just as there are men out there that don’t take care of there children there are woman * Hint* that like to try to hold on to a man by using a child that they know damn well is not that man’s baby. FYI sweety having a baby is not going to keep a man when he wants to leave he leaves. So either get support or let it go.

first off, if this is one of his lil girlfriends, honey let me start by saying, i dont want to hold on to him, i am the one who let him go! 2nd i dont want his money, i take care of my own! plus after all of this, and knowing his temper, and his attitude, i dont want my son to be around him period, but if he was any kind of man, he would fight me to see his son. and lastly, i know who my son’s father is, i didnt step out on anyone. and if he had his doubts, why would he sign all the papers and fight for me to name my son after him??? so maybe you should get the real story straight….and i posted this cause i know how he is and that he goes around denying his children, and no one should do that. so please dont run your mouth on a situation that you know nothing of, i’m not anyone to mess with. and if he has a problem with this post, he can contact me. thanks and have a great freakin day!

oh and as far as him taking care of me??? oh girl please this dude always broke….i was the one taking care of his ass…which was my dumbass mistake and i’m woman enough to admit that, but its a mistake i will never make again….

I will back my sister up 100%!!!! This little HEFER don’t know a damn this about this situation. If I see Tori out in public we are going to have a problem.everything she said about him not offering is true. And how dare he try and say that this isn’t his child. He is a punk ass that needs to grow up. Thank god this child has a good family to love and care for him. I was there for her the whole time and my family and I know the whole story, so little HEFER don’t get it twisted.

I will back my sister up 100%!!!! This little HEFER don’t know a damn this about this situation. If I see Tori out in public we are going to have a problem.everything she said about him not offering to help is true. And how dare he try and say that this isn’t his child. He is a punk ass that needs to grow up. Thank god this child has a good family to love and care for him. I was there for her the whole time and my family and I know the whole story, so little HEFER don’t get it twisted.

@Angel6595….bitch shut the fuck up..with yo shrek looking ass….@diva..girl i feel you alot of people dnt understand what we go thro….these guys are really deadbeats….like we give them every chance but they blow it up….they wana go in the streets and lie about how much they are taking care of their kids but if you ask them their kids fav things a nigga dnt even know….so i would just tell you this keep loving your son and put him on child support as well….seems like sc guys are deadbeats…i put a post on here bout mines as well dondre on sc collumn….well i wish you best of luck girl….

First off to all you dumb bitches on here thank you for the comments you can say what you like and talk all the shit you want but in the end I am not the one posting shit about a dead beat father on here my child’s father is a good father. Maybe you dumb hoes should get to know the person your sleeping with before you start making babies just an idea bitches :)

@angel…stupid bitch…how many couples do you know have been together for years and soon as they break up the guys start been deadbeats…..well thats my situation….peoples situations are different so again bitch STFU

@ angel…Who the hell are you? Learn how to read and absorb the information that has been provided,oh and running your mouth about posting on this website doesn’t say much for your stupid ass, your contributing. We all have made mistakes, why do you have to hate instead of supporting a woman who is clearly hurting….oh probably because your a stupid bitch that is fucking him now! Good luck in life you ignorant bitch.

ladies, thank you for showing love and helping me explain to this stupid ass bitch, that apparently is the one that he is fucking with now, what she is gonna be going through after he fucks her over and clears out her bank account because he is dead fucking broke living in a run down trailer or staying at his mama’s house, claiming he is father of the year to a daughter that I bought christmas for because he rather spend his money else where. i have already admitted to my mistake that i made over the course of 3 years….3 year bitch you hear that, not 3 days, not 3 months, 3 YEARS! this nigga asked me to marry him and I AM THE ONE THAT SAID NO! we were working through the problems we had, and yes it was my mistake for taking him back after I LEFT HIM!!!!!!! and in the course yes i got pregnant, and HE WAS HAPPY ABOUT IT!!! but then this fool wants to stay out all hours of the night and try to come crawl in my bed at 6am, dont think so, so I CUT HIM LOOSE. oh by the way, HE STEPPED OUT ON ME AND HOW DO I KNOW THAT??? WELL HONEY IF YOU ARE FUCKING HIM, MAKE SURE THAT RUBBER IS TIGHT YOUR WILL TOO WILL BE THE ONE GOING TO THE DR, AND TAKING 3 PILLS…oh and i told him about it, and then later asked if he went to the dr to get checked out, and he told me NO HE DIDNT HAVE THE MONEY!!! i pray to god he hasnt been carrying some shit around for almost 2 years!!!!! he put my health and the health of our unborn son in danger, now isnt that fucking father of year!!!! so heffer look, you can believe me or you can believe the bullshit coming out of his mouth, hell cant blame ya if you did, he’s good at shit talking, but thats all it is….SHIT! that’s why i dont want him around my son, my son is better off with out his ass….this post was just to warn dumb ass hoes like you what kinda nigga they fucking with…..

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